Fertility issues are deeply personal, and the infertility quotes in this article aim to offer support and encouragement—wherever you are in that process.
We understand that quotes about “never giving up” or “a single defeat, not being the final defeat” can sometimes feel dismissive or even hurtful, especially for those who may not see pregnancy as an outcome.
Infertility doesn’t always end with a positive pregnancy test. For some, the process may involve exploring different paths to fulfillment, whether through adoption, other forms of parenthood, or a life redefined by new dreams and goals.
We handpicked these infertility quotes to speak to various aspects of the infertility experience, from the grief of unfulfilled expectations to the resilience required to move forward.
Some of these infertility quotes may resonate deeply, while others may not be a perfect fit—and that’s okay.
Our goal is to create a space where anyone impacted by infertility feels seen and supported.
Whether you’re finding strength in continuing to try, processing grief, or discovering peace in a different future, we hope you’ll find at least one quote here that feels like it was meant for you.
Infertility Quotes About Resilience and Strength
These inspirational quotes remind readers of their strength, even through the hardship of infertility, and encourage perseverance.
Fertility treatments are not for the faint of heart.
“Never confuse a single defeat with an eventual defeat.” — F. Scott Fitzgerald
“What seems to us as bitter trials are often blessings in disguise.” — Oscar Wilde
“You never know how strong you are until being strong is your only choice.” — Bob Marley
“Faith is taking the first step, even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” — Martin Luther King, Jr
“People cry, not because they’re weak. It’s because they’ve been strong for too long.” — Johnny Depp
“The journey through infertility teaches patience like no other experience. Keep holding on to your inner strength.” — Unknown
“Fertility is not something you conquer. Rather maddeningly, there’s no straight line between effort and reward.” — Michelle Obama
“Infertility is a medical diagnosis, not a personal failure. Remember, this is not your fault.” — Dr. Jessica Zucker, psychologist and reproductive health specialist
“It can either make or break your marital relationship. Make the determined commitment that no matter what happens, you and your husband were…and are a couple first.” — Cheryl
Inspirational Fertility Quotes About Staying Hopeful During the Infertility Journey
Hope is essential for anyone going through infertility.
These inspirational quotes encourage holding on to optimism, even in the darkest times.
“Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future.” — Robert H. Schuller
“Never let go of hope. One day you will see it was all worth it.” — Unknown
“Infertility is a marathon, not a sprint. Take it one step at a time.” — Dr. Alice Domar
“When the world says, ‘Give up,’ Hope whispers, Try one more time.’” — Anonymous
“Every day begins with an act of courage and hope: getting out of bed.” — Mason Coole
“IVF or not, you have to stay positive. You have to relax as much as possible.” — Celine Dion
“But just as anything bad could happen at this point, so could anything good.” — Julie Robicheax
“There is hope, even when you feel like giving up. Remember, every storm runs out of rain.” — Maya Angelou
“Never give up on a dream. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it.” — Earl Nightingale
“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying ‘I will try again tomorrow.’” — Mary Anne Radmacher
Quotes on Coping with Grief and Loss in Infertility
Infertility often brings significant grief, especially after failed treatments or pregnancy loss.
These infertility quotes offer empathy and validation for that pain.
“There is more to life than just your fertility.” — Alaina Bullock
“Sometimes it’s hard to see the rainbow when there’s been endless days of rain.” — Christina Greer
“Infertility isn’t a one-time grief. It’s a grief that ebbs and flows as we move through life.” — Unknown
“It’s okay to grieve for the life you imagined. Let yourself feel the loss, and then keep moving forward.” — Unknown
“There is a unique pain that comes from preparing a place in your heart for a child that never comes.” — David Platt
“Grief is the last act of love we can give to those we loved. Where there is deep grief, there was great love.” — Unknown
“It’s hard to wait around for something you know might never happen; but it’s harder to give up when you know it’s everything you want.” — Unknown
“For those who deeply want children and are denied them, those missing babies hover like silent ephemeral shadows over their lives. Who can describe the feel of a tiny hand that is never held?” — Laura Bush
“The world was selfish, unjust. How could so many undeserving people be given the opportunity to raise children they didn’t even want while so many worthy individuals didn’t get the chance?” — Brittainy C. Cherry
“It is one thing, I was discovering, to think, “Maybe I won’t have kids,” and quite another to be told, “Maybe you can’t.” This is how impatience turns to desperation.” — Peggy Orenstein
Quotes About Finding Meaning in the Infertility Journey
These quotes offer perspective, helping readers find purpose and meaning amid their struggles with infertility.
“Your path may be difficult, but it’s leading to something beautiful.” — Unknown
“Infertility has a way of teaching us resilience, patience, and the true value of life.” — Unknown
“The infertility journey may reshape your dreams, but it doesn’t diminish their worth.” — Unknown
“We must let go of the life we planned to accept the one that is waiting for us.” — Joseph Campbell
“Infertility doesn’t change who you are, but it can change how you see the world and appreciate it more deeply.” — Unknown
“A blessed home is not a home full of kids, but a home where there is peace, harmony and understanding.” — Michael Bassey Johnson
“It can be the most isolating experience. But I’m trying to find that space where I can keep my privacy and also be there for someone else who may be going through it. Now that I’m on the other side, I wouldn’t have had it any other way. I’ve always believed that things happen the way they’re supposed to happen, and this is how [our babies] were supposed to get here.” — Kristen Wiig, InStyle
Raw and Real Infertility Quotes From People On a Fertility Journey
“Sometimes you just need to be sad. It’s a natural reaction to the sadness of infertility.” — Chrissy Teigen
“Don’t listen to people who tell you how you’re supposed to feel–the only one who gets to decide that is you.” — Becky, ZouvesFertilityCenter
“I got a lot of hurtful comments about my age. I was in my early 40s when I started trying and suffered from miscarriages.” — Elizabeth King
Even on nice days, I kept the windows closed so I wouldn’t hear children playing outside, a painful reminder of the child I should have had by now. — Meg Faith
“For everyone going through infertility and conception hell, please know it was not a straight line to either of my pregnancies. Sending you extra love.” — Anne Hathaway
“I learned that this required strength I never thought I had. Women going through this journey, in one form or another, are the strongest people I know.” — Sara, Infertility Stories of Hope
“Are you just looking for one? During my infertility struggle that included 3 IUIs and 3 rounds of IVF, I heard ALL the bad advice and unintentional but painful comments like, ‘You don’t know love until you’re a mom.’” — Kristin Dillensnyder
“There’s a certain amount of shame that is placed on women who have perhaps chosen a career over starting a family younger. The penance for being a career woman is barrenness. You feel like you’re wearing a scarlet letter. But there is so much hope; there are so many options.” — Gabrielle Union, Redbook
“It’s not that motherhood is out of reach, it’s that it’s just out of reach. It’s not that motherhood didn’t happen, it’s that it almost did and, in fact, still could. The difference between the grief of infertility and other reasons for mourning – the loss of a spouse, for example – is in that promise of ‘just,’ in ‘almost,’ in ‘still could.” — Alexandra Kimball, The Seed: Infertility is a Feminist Issue
Every Woman’s Story About Their Journey to Parenthood Is Unique
Remember that the journey through infertility is unique and often unpredictable. And sometimes, it does not end in a biological baby.
Whether or not it includes a pregnancy, each path is valid, and each experience of hope, loss, or acceptance deserves to be honored.
Sometimes, finding peace involves redefining dreams, discovering joy in new possibilities, or simply embracing the resilience within you.
As Cinderella’s fairy godmother reminds us, “Even miracles take a little time…” Sometimes that miracle is found in a baby. Other times, it might come from growth, healing, or unexpected joy—even if it doesn’t look like the story you initially imagined.
We hope one or more of these quotes has spoken to your experience and brought you some comfort or strength.
Remember, you’re not alone on this journey. Whatever your path looks like, we see you, honor your strength, and are here with you.
Do you have a story about infertility or infant loss that you would like to share with us? Please reach out to us so we can help you share your story.
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